Ruined orgasms

To any of my fellow sub readers... Does your Mistress/Master consider a "ruined" orgasm as an actual orgasm? Miss Scarlett doesn't count those as an orgasm. She has become an expert at teasing the cum out of me. She knows exactly when to stop, WELL before there is any contractions. i feel absolutely nothing, and the cum just "runs" out. 

I've read, and watched videos about ruined orgasms, where the Dom stimulates the sub until the first squirt happens then lets go. To me, that's not a ruined orgasm... that's just an orgasm.  A true ruined orgasm, there isn't any feeling... am i right?

~Sierra