i found the picture at the bottom of this post on another blog, submissive husband in Phoenix, in a wonderful post about submission, chastity, and FLM. You can read it yourself here. The article i thought was very acturate, at least in our (my Wife and i's) marriage.
For us, She is in total control. i have accepted the fact that i will be in chastity at all times. Her pleasure ALWAYS comes first. my pleasure comes solely from Her. She decides when or IF the cage comes off. And any and ALL of my orgasms are Hers.
Once a submissive fully gives themselves to their Dominant, true happiness is achieved. my only concern is making sure my Wife and Mistress is happy. For if She is happy, then i am happy.
~sierra
