Wednesday, January 12, 2022

New rules of the house

Miss Scarlett and i have been going back and forth on a list of "house rules" for me. i think we're pretty close to finalizing them. We have been giving them a "test run" for the past few weeks, and there have been tweaks here and there. If anyone cares to comment with other suggestions, i would be happy to listen!

i don't want to call them a "contract", but that's really kinda what they are. They center around a chore list that is expected to be completed each week. Which rooms to clean, and what to clean. i'm also now required to do all dishes, laundry and make sure the coffee is ready.

It also outlines clothing, chastity, shaving, and how i am to address Her. We've outlined what and how "playtime" starts, weekly "maintenance" spankings, and pegging.  We also came up with a list of punishments and rewards for my behavior.  

i feel it's far from finalized, but getting closer.  The more i think about it, the more i do want to draft it up into a formal contract and have us each sign it. 2022 is going to be the biggest change in my sub/service to Miss Scarlett since we started this journey, and for that, i'm excited!

~sierra



Tuesday, January 4, 2022

Happy New Year!

A year ago, i think we were all saying "goodbye 2020, 2021 can't be any worse!".  Well, not much has changed, and here we are welcoming in 2022.

This past year, we've gotten more serious about chastity than ever before. i spent more time caged than any year we've been together. i started logging hours in May, and have spent 4,296.75 hours locked.  That is ~73% of the year (from May-December) in chastity. Not bad, but certainly room for improvement. 

Since i started keeping track in May, i've had just 19 orgasms (7 ruined, 12 full). That may seem like a lot to some and it may be... i asked Miss Scarlett on NYE how many orgasms She thinks is reasonable for a year for me. Her answer, 6.  OMG, 6! That is rightfully scary, but dang if it doesn't have me swelling in my cage! hehe

I haven't stopped logging hours, and plan to spend the entire year in chastity. That doesn't mean 100%, there will be times of a "break" or whenever Miss Scarlett wants to play with Her toy. What it does mean is that there will be far fewer erections this year than last!

As for New Years Resolutions? Well, i plan to take my submissiveness much more serious this year. i'm now in charge of all the housework. We've come up with a list of things that are required to be done each week. i've always been "submissive" to my Wife, but i kinda felt like i was really just playing it up. i resolve to truly submit to Her. To do as i'm told immediately and without question. There always was some amount of hesitation or pushback from me before. This year will be different!

Cheers
~sierra




An up(down?)grade

For the past year and a half, with the exception for a couple months i was in a pink Cherry Keeper, i have been wearing a shortened version ...