This past year, we've gotten more serious about chastity than ever before. i spent more time caged than any year we've been together. i started logging hours in May, and have spent 4,296.75 hours locked. That is ~73% of the year (from May-December) in chastity. Not bad, but certainly room for improvement.
Since i started keeping track in May, i've had just 19 orgasms (7 ruined, 12 full). That may seem like a lot to some and it may be... i asked Miss Scarlett on NYE how many orgasms She thinks is reasonable for a year for me. Her answer, 6. OMG, 6! That is rightfully scary, but dang if it doesn't have me swelling in my cage! hehe
I haven't stopped logging hours, and plan to spend the entire year in chastity. That doesn't mean 100%, there will be times of a "break" or whenever Miss Scarlett wants to play with Her toy. What it does mean is that there will be far fewer erections this year than last!
As for New Years Resolutions? Well, i plan to take my submissiveness much more serious this year. i'm now in charge of all the housework. We've come up with a list of things that are required to be done each week. i've always been "submissive" to my Wife, but i kinda felt like i was really just playing it up. i resolve to truly submit to Her. To do as i'm told immediately and without question. There always was some amount of hesitation or pushback from me before. This year will be different!
Cheers
~sierra
Happy New Year! Or let's hope right??? Everyone is going in a bit more wary. Your submissiveness is in the mind and sometimes needs to be cemented and reinforced. Has your wife ever thought about sex with others to reinforce your mindset and help you realize your role and position? I know it's not something easily jumped into, and takes a lot of planets to allign to actually happen. But were she to find the right person (or people) it might provide a satisfaction for all involved. Easier said than done I know. With Covid running amok, people barely want to visit with family and friends, let alone meet potential paramours and possibly MORE.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the reply! We have been working on somewhat of a contract. Not sure if that is really the right word, but the best one that describes what we're drafting. Something to put in writing the evolution of our relationship and my submission.
DeleteWe have both discussed involving another, but as you said it's not something easily jumped into. As of now, just a fantasy, but one we would both someday like to become reality. Lot's of questions around where to look, trust (in the other person. i trust my Wife whole heartedly), discretion, etc... Things will need to settle down with covid before anything really happens though. Stay tuned in the next few days to week on more about our "contract"!
~sierra