The perfect fit (finally!)

In my last post, i mentioned about spending an entire year locked from May 2021 through April 2022. Chastity is a trial and error game for many. A balance between fit and comfort. No two sissy bits are the same, yet so many commercially available cages are "one size fits most". Enter custom made cages...

my first custom metal cage was a Jailbird from Mature Metal in 2016. i spend days measuring myself multiple times and thought i had it pretty good. After all, they aren't cheap, and really wanted to get the fit "perfect". With a ring size of 1.75" and an overall cage length of 3.5". Mature Metal's website says to take your "soft" measurement and subtract 1/4". Through reading on chastity websites, most people recommend subtracting a 1/2 inch, so i did.

The fit was good. But i think i knew pretty quickly that i grossly overestimated the length! Speaking with a friend who is also locked... he recently upgraded (downgraded?) to a smaller cage, and we worked out a deal and he sent me his "old" cage. It was the same internal diameter, but a full inch shorter than what i had ordered... just 2.5".

What an "upgrade" it was! i was beyond pleased with how much better it fit me. The only problem now was the ring. Whenever i would attempt to get excited, the ring would slide and the cage would push away from my body. So my next purchase was a new base ring. i ordered one size smaller, AND a double base ring. The double base ring is 10x more comfortable! Seriously that should be the standard option when ordering one of their devices. The problem now was the size. Unfortunately going one size smaller was just too small to wear at night. So the year i spent locked, had me changing the base ring twice a day. Sleeping in my original singe ring, and changing it first thing in the morning to the double ring.

So here we are in August, after a 4 month break from blogging and chastity really. Over the break, i went back to MM.  i had sent my original cage and base ring to them.  i had them add a second ring to my original 1.75" base, AND i had them shorten my original 3.5" cage down to 2.25". i believe i now have that "perfect" fit! As of this writing i've been locked 24/7 for two weeks... and i haven't even SEEN the key. 

This sissy couldn't be happier  😊

~sierra

It's been a long while

End of August already? It's really been 5 months since i've posted???  Well, i'm sure some of you understand how life can get in the way of the more... fun things. And this year has been one of those times. Anyway, with that out of the way, back to your regularly scheduled "fun times"! i'll try and post more frequently 😘

Ah let's see... The end of April marked the end of my 1 year in chastity journey. i spent 365 days locked, 7,046.75 hours, or 80.44% of the time from May 1, 2021 through April 30, 2022. In that time, my wonderful Mistress enjoyed 171 orgasm, while i enjoyed 14 full and 10 ruined. i'd like to tell you about the last orgasm i "enjoyed" before i was freed from chastity at April's end.

Something that i can say has never happened to me before. Since i discovered masturbation in my early teens, i've always "taken matters in my own hands" so to speak. i've never gone more than a couple days without an orgasm until my Wife and i started playing with orgasm denial and chastity.

So at the end of April this year i was shocked at what happened, incredibly embarrassed, and humiliated to say the least. i can remember dreaming, i can't remember what about, but i do remember it was something sexy. i was caged, of course, and throbbing! Then it happened... woke me up out of a dead sleep.  i started spurting all over myself and the sheets. There was no touching, no stimulation, i was sound asleep... my first "wet dream"... at the age of 40!

~sierra