Tuesday, August 30, 2022

The perfect fit (finally!)

In my last post, i mentioned about spending an entire year locked from May 2021 through April 2022. Chastity is a trial and error game for many. A balance between fit and comfort. No two sissy bits are the same, yet so many commercially available cages are "one size fits most". Enter custom made cages...

my first custom metal cage was a Jailbird from Mature Metal in 2016. i spend days measuring myself multiple times and thought i had it pretty good. After all, they aren't cheap, and really wanted to get the fit "perfect". With a ring size of 1.75" and an overall cage length of 3.5". Mature Metal's website says to take your "soft" measurement and subtract 1/4". Through reading on chastity websites, most people recommend subtracting a 1/2 inch, so i did.

The fit was good. But i think i knew pretty quickly that i grossly overestimated the length! Speaking with a friend who is also locked... he recently upgraded (downgraded?) to a smaller cage, and we worked out a deal and he sent me his "old" cage. It was the same internal diameter, but a full inch shorter than what i had ordered... just 2.5".

What an "upgrade" it was! i was beyond pleased with how much better it fit me. The only problem now was the ring. Whenever i would attempt to get excited, the ring would slide and the cage would push away from my body. So my next purchase was a new base ring. i ordered one size smaller, AND a double base ring. The double base ring is 10x more comfortable! Seriously that should be the standard option when ordering one of their devices. The problem now was the size. Unfortunately going one size smaller was just too small to wear at night. So the year i spent locked, had me changing the base ring twice a day. Sleeping in my original singe ring, and changing it first thing in the morning to the double ring.

So here we are in August, after a 4 month break from blogging and chastity really. Over the break, i went back to MM.  i had sent my original cage and base ring to them.  i had them add a second ring to my original 1.75" base, AND i had them shorten my original 3.5" cage down to 2.25". i believe i now have that "perfect" fit! As of this writing i've been locked 24/7 for two weeks... and i haven't even SEEN the key. 

This sissy couldn't be happier  😊

~sierra



5 comments:

  1. The key is not yours to see!!!! They are meant to be held by the beautiful Women in our lives. They know what we need and don't need. It's a beautiful feeling isn't it?

    xox

    sissy terrie

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    1. It's a wonderfully beautiful feeling! It's just a NEW wonderfully beautiful feeling. i've certainly been locked for much longer, but since i didn't have a proper fitting cage, i was changing things around twice a day. Now though, i think i may be in for a wondeful sissy ride... there's no reason to remove the cage now unless SHE wants to play with it.

      ~sierra

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  2. Glad to have helped you find Nirvana, also happy you consider me a friend. SpankQ

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  3. There's no question that without your guidance, i would most likely have given up on chastity. i'm sure the Mrs would have been disappointed, She seems to enjoy me locked as much as i enjoy submitting to being caged for Her.
    ~sierra

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  4. I’m sorry thhatcmy first experience in buying a chastity cage just didn’t work out well at all.. bad fit. Coldly make it work. Thank you for some inspiration! SaraE

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