Monday, July 8, 2019

FetLife

How did this wild ride start for us?  Neither myself or my Wife have ever had a kinky side.  Hell, when we got married the wildest thing we did was maybe play with a blindfold.  It wasn't until about our 3rd year of marriage did i run into a site called FetLife.  For those that don't know, it's kinda like facebook for adults.  Things kind of snowballed from there, and we just started experimenting and trying new things.  Trying new things... i'm convinced that IS the key to a happy marriage.  

Never of us thought we would make so many friends from FetLife! Anyone reading this that is nervous or scared about going to a local munch, i know EXACTLY how you feel. We felt the same way when we went to our first one. But we also had a great time! And it wasn't anything like i thought it would be. Turns out, it was just dinner.

The person that was in charge made us feel very welcome, and it was a very comfortable setting. There were maybe a dozen people, maybe a few more. Everyone was nice. And it was just a bunch of adults having conversation. Once we realized we were just having dinner with a bunch of like minded people, we realized we weren't all that "different" after all.  Since that first one, we've gone back several times. We've also made some really good friends.

So to all those out there reading, go to a munch, have a good time, talk to some people. If you're worried about there being a bunch of creepers there... Well, as long as you're not the creeper, then you probably won't find any.


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