Had a discussion with someone on ChastityMansion.com this morning, about permanent chastity. So, what is "permanent"? That's kind of a relative term, and can mean different things to different people. We've been "playing" with chastity for several years now. We have a peeks and valleys.... our highs and lows. We get really into it, then life happens and we'll go months with nothing.
Its those months of "lows" that we realize how much better life, and our relationship is with chastity. We talked about it back in Sept. and we're really trying for a more "permanent" lockup now. We don't want to hit those lows ever again. So as of Sept, i have been locked 100% of the time.
Now what does permanent mean to us? Well, i'm not locked 24/7, 100%, throw away the key because i'll never be out again, permanent. Yes, i am still let "out". But it's now never up to me. i'm only out when SHE wants me to be. i only have an erection when SHE wants it, and certainly never have an orgasm unless SHE allows it. i have no access to the key that unlocks Her cage. So, yeah, i think that probably means i'm now "permanent".
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I'm so happy for you guys! I'm hoping my wife and I get to the same point someday soon. I love being locked and under her control, but like you, we're not 100% consistent. Please keep blogging, you're an absolute inspiration!
ReplyDeleteYou'll get there. Honestly i thought you were locked 24/7? i can say it is tough with kids, and life happening. We often get sidetracked and non-consistent. We we've promised is to MAKE time. Whether that means let the dishes sit out one night, or skip putting the laundry away... we need to get better at making "us" time. You'll get there. Talk to your wife, tell her how you feel, and most importantly, make time for each other.
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Glad you like the blog :) You're the only one that ever comments. i love reading your thoughts. Sometimes i feel like the only reason i have this blog is for you!