A New Year, A New Dynamic

2025 is shaping up to be a year unlike any other. Not only have i made a commitment to my lovely Wife to remain locked in chastity "indefinitely", but my submission has certainly taken a more dramatic turn as well. In the past our D/s relationship was never "fake", or not "taken serious", because it absolutely was. But i have always had a difficult time determining where the D/s line is drawn. We have a child and neither of us want to involve the little one into this dynamic. So i have to admit that i haven't always been truly submissive ALL the time. It's hard when you have an otherwise "normal" life with the woman you love. 

On top of that, we have started a dynamic with another couple. It has been going on for a couple months now. Scarlett has been greatly enjoying the attention She is getting from the man in the relationship. They have been together a couple times now, with another scheduled meeting later this month. i can't say it is a true cuckold relationship, but it is very close. i have been involved to some extent with them, and yes that included getting each ready and clean up after. A first for me...

He and his wife are both Dominant. Well, he's a switch technically. Over the last couple weeks he has become somewhat of a second Dom to me. I had asked him why he as decided to be more dominant towards me. Is it because he enjoyed the control? Because it's what he thought i wanted/needed? Or just some other reason.

He said he loves the control. No shocker there, so does my Wife! Being a switch he knows what it feels like be have someone control you. He and i have talked for several years before this relationship evolved into what it is. He and my Wife feed off each other. The more Dom one is, the more Dom the other becomes. The more submissive i am, that also just fuels the fire for each of them. Having a strong emotional attachment to the one you love brings certain limitations due to the emotional connection my Wife and i share. He and i have a good friendship, but no "emotional" connection, and as such he has no such limitations. He said he plans to push me farther than She ever has. i'm sure She will be learning a lot from him. 

Bottom line, he wants to be my Dominant because he wants to, because it's what i want, and because it's what my Wife wants.

What a great answer...
~sierra