Mistress and i had a conversation over dinner last night about control. She has been working on securing a new position where She works, but is worried about giving up control of what She does on a daily basis. And that got me thinking about how similar we are and at the same time how different.
She is very much in control of our personal life. She has grown into that personality, but it fits Her well. She enjoys being in control all the time... at work and at home. She wants things done Her way.
When She was telling me about Her work. It got me thinking. i too am very much in control at work too. i don't like giving up responsibilities to others. There are quite a few things that i do at my job that quite frankly someone else who got paid a lot less than me could do, but then they wouldn't be done my way! i like things done a particular way... my way. And i don't very willingly give that up... control.
Where we differ is, that's where my control ends. When i leave work, i too leave my control at work. When i get home, i'm the submissive. Submitting to my Wife's control. Where She enjoys control in all aspects of life, i like to leave that at work. Perhaps that's why i feel submissive at home, because shall i say it... i'm Dominant at work!
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Hi. It sounds like we have a lot in common. Hubby is also in control at work and fully submits to me at home. I keep him in chastity at least 6 months of the year. We have an agreement that he will lock himself and bring me the key when instructed. He does chores, grocery shopping, and follows my instruction. We have been practicing this lifestyle for about 10 years, each year I become more confident and hubby becomes more submissive.
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DeleteIt does sound like we have much in common! my Wife and i have only been in this lifestyle a couple of years, but it's been an incredible journey. i would love to chat, feel free to send me an email. my Mistress and i are always welcome to advice and ideas.