Friends

my last post was about making friends on FetLife.  i'd like to tell you about one couple we met from there.  She was the first person we met, and made us feel very welcome.  We didn't meet Her husband until a few months later.  We hit it off with them and became very close.  Turns out we have so much in common.

Much like our relationship, She is the Dominant, and he is Her submissive.  he is also a crossdresser!  So, yeah, the two of us have a lot in common.  i still find it awkward to talk so very openly about something so "taboo".  Being friends with them and spending time with them, has made us feel comfortable enough to open up more in the past 6 months than the past 3+ years.

my Wife has become more confident, in control, and She's grown as a Dominant.  i have also grown.  The D/s dynamic between us has has really become an intricate part of our relationship.  When we first started down this path it was almost strictly in the bedroom.  i've learned that i can be a submissive in nearly all aspects of life.  Her needs always come first, and i love to please Her.  Whether that's in the bedroom, or just tending to Her needs.  I do laundry, dishes, house work, i give pedicures, foot rubs, and generally just put Her first.  i've learned that being submissive, it brings me pleasure to please my Mistress.

i don't think we would have gotten this far without friends.